More Choice, Better Outcomes: The Power of Cross-Referring

Jamie • June 3, 2025

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At Chosen Family Australia, we’re guided by one clear principle: participants deserve choice and control over their own supports.


We know the disability sector can be complex, and sometimes providers feel tempted to “hold onto” participants rather than collaborating or referring out. But here’s the thing: it’s 2025 — we believe it’s time to truly empower people, not limit them.

You can’t possibly serve everyone perfectly

No single provider can be everything to everyone. When a provider tries to cover every service or support need under the sun, something inevitably slips through the cracks. We see this all too often, and unfortunately, it’s the participants who bear the cost.


When participants have multiple providers, they gain fresh perspectives, more diverse expertise, and, most importantly, a team that’s truly focused on their individual goals.

Why cross-referring is a sign of strength, not weakness

Cross-referring doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you genuinely care enough to acknowledge when another provider might be a better fit for a participant’s unique needs. It’s a powerful act of humility and integrity — and it leads to better outcomes.

We don’t believe in holding participants hostage

Restricting choice or discouraging participants from exploring other services? We see that as a disservice to the community. Everyone should have the freedom to build a support team that feels right for them.


At Chosen Family Australia, we celebrate collaboration. We believe in a community approach, where providers work with each other, not against each other, always keeping the participant’s wellbeing front and centre.


So, if you’re not cross-referring or open to working alongside others, maybe we do have different values. And that’s okay — but we’ll keep choosing to stand for choice, control, and true participant empowerment.

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